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VICTIM MAN TELLS WOMEN ALL ABOUT IT

victim man

Who is victim man?

You? Me? The guy down the street?

It’s all of the above, but only one person gets the trophy:

The man who cries and moans the loudest and most often.

Being a victim man is a noisy business. No one would know you’re a victim if you didn’t tell them.

So tell them. That’s the idea

Suffering in silence is for losers and suckers, but you knew that.

Putting the best face on troubled times is no good if you need special attention to get through the day.

Instead, it’s better to point out how bad things are, and getting worse, and assigning blame.

The blame part is easy for men of a certain class:

Blame women.

Supreme Court Blames Women

Little Jenny in Texas goes out on a date with the kid she secretly loves more than anything she can think of. He’s smart and has a bright future.

Her future takes a turn when she finds out she’s pregnant.

After talking to her parents, her friends, but not the boy or his parents, she chooses to have an abortion.

She didn’t talk to the Supreme Court, but they talked to her.

Based on their vote on Roe v Wade, Jenny’s decision is made for her:

It’s all her fault, and she alone will bear the burden.

But her daddy is rich, so she still has options?

Victim Man Psychology

What is the greatest threat to Victim Man?

E. D.

It stands for Educational Deficit, or Erectile Dysfunction.

Victim Man turns into Angry Man when he discovers no lead in his pencil, a limp noodle instead of brittle, uncooked, pasta.

Who does he blame? Women.

What should he blame instead?

Stress, depression, guilt, low body image, relationship issues, mental illness, sleep disorders, or anxiety—including performance anxiety.

Or his momma?

Victim Cover For Little Willie

I’ve talked to women about fear.

What is their greatest fear?

Fear of certain men, namely their ex-husbands.

They were frightened for their lives.

We’re the men truly scary? I trusted the women on their feelings. Weird, right?

Did they know what they were getting into?

Based on my personal experience, you never know how things will turn out in the long run.

Their men might have been regular guys at the beginning. But after seeing how many normal appearing people put on the red hats, things can change.

And change fast.

How many men heard Trump say, “Women let you do stuff when you’re a star,” but didn’t hear the other side, the women’s side.

I didn’t hear it either, but based on the Harvey Weinstein interviews, letting gross old guys paw them was a career move, not infatuation, or an organic need for creepy men.

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Victim Man is not very stable.

Show you’re a stable man, or woman, by your actions.

Remind yourself that there are other people in the world who think as highly of themselves as you do.

Keep in mind that their opinion of themselves isn’t a judgement on you. You are not less because some stranger things they are better than you.

If you wonder about it, they might be better than you, but what’s it matter?

It doesn’t matter until you buy into some jackalope telling you it matters.

That’s their personal mythology, not yours. 

Treat others the way you’d like to be treated. Does that sound familiar?

Go ahead and give it a try.

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