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Let Go At The Right Time, Like Now

 

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I believe everything works out in the end. If things aren’t worked out, then I know it’s not the end. Simple stuff, right?

 

The stories about endings that leave so many loose strings untied? Don’t believe them. That’s not how the end works. I’m convinced we’re wired to let it go at the end.

 

So it’s okay to let go of loose strings? Of course, but why wait until the end?

 

Some strings I’ve let go tried to grow into a hangman’s rope. Others knotted up and cut off circulation. If either of those try sneaking up, grab them first. Give them a good crack-the-whip snapper, and let it go.

 

Here what I worked out, gave a snap to, and let go: I hired a web designer.

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